April 20, 2025

“Think of what is above, not of what is on earth” (Col 3:2). Today we celebrate the Resurrection of our Savior, who redeemed us and opened the gates to Eternal Life! Celebrate the journey to Heaven you are on with your spouse.

April 19, 2025

In the midst of preparation for tomorrow’s celebration, set aside some time to pray with your spouse. Ask Jesus to open your hearts to the glory of His Resurrection.

April 18, 2025

Christ loved us to the point of death, even death on a cross. In Christian marriage, spouses are called to love each other as Christ loves the Church.

April 17, 2025

At the Last Supper, Christ washed the feet of the apostles. What is one way you can “wash the feet” of your spouse this week? (Meaning, be humble and serve him or her with a generous heart.)

April 16, 2025

When you feel negative about something your spouse says, try to look at the statement from a different perspective (especially his/hers) before responding.

April 15, 2025

Gather your family to reflect on the Passion tonight. Take turns reading from the Gospel of John (Jn 19:17-34) and silently reflecting or sharing thoughts.

April 14, 2025

Thank your spouse for something s/he does for you, especially on a daily basis. A text mid-day or a welcome home “thank you” goes a long way.

April 13, 2025

“But you, O Lord, be not far from me; O my help, hasten to aid me” (Ps 22:20). With your spouse, discern one area of your relationship where there is a lack of trust and make a conscientious effort to strengthen that area, with God as the foundation.

April 12, 2025

Of all of the things you have to do today, is time with your spouse a priority? Be sure to give him or her the attention he or she deserves.

April 11, 2025

Know where you are emotionally. Take an inventory throughout the day on how you’re feeling. Talk with your spouse about what events cause strong emotions and how to react well.

April 10, 2025

Spring is starting to show! Make the effort to get some extra rays of sunshine with your spouse – it betters your mood and is a simple pleasure.

April 9, 2025

“A day without laughter is a day wasted.” – Charlie Chaplin
Keep conversation light by laughing at your spouse’s jokes. And say some too!

April 8, 2025

When things are really busy, take fifteen minutes for each other, even if it’s only once a week. Make this time together a top priority.

April 7, 2025

Lenten check-in, week 5: Is service a part of your Lent? It’s not too late! Make this Saturday a day of service with your family, even if it’s something small.

April 6, 2025

“For I put water in the desert and rivers in the wasteland for my chosen people to drink” (Is 43:20). God provides for all of our needs; do you trust Him to do so for your family or do you rely on your own merits and work?

April 5, 2025

Write a poem to your spouse. Even if you are not creative, you can write it with love!

April 4, 2025

Instead of pointing out faults you see in your spouse, offer ways for improvement. When your spouse does this, be open to his/her feedback.

April 3, 2025

When conflicts arise, use open-ended questions that allow your spouse to voice his/her feelings and opinions honestly. Avoid asking questions in a demanding tone.

April 2, 2025

Love is humble, and humility acknowledges that we are not perfect. Take the time to ask for forgiveness from your spouse if you have hurt him or her.

April 1, 2025

Some people like surprises and some people don’t. What does your spouse prefer? Be playful today, while being respectful of their preferences.

March 31, 2025

Organize a sport or game night and invite your friends. Friendly competition can be a great way to spend time with differing personalities.

March 30, 2025

“Whoever is in Christ is a new creation” (2 Cor 5:17). The Sacrament of Confession is a wonderful gift in which God offers us the opportunity to be made new. Consider going with your family this week.

March 29, 2025

Add an extra prayer to your daily routine, asking God to bless your spouse’s day.

March 28, 2025

Consider going the extra mile to spend time with a family member your spouse wants to visit.

March 27, 2025

Communication is an area where there can always be improvement. Talk with your spouse about ways you can communicate better or times when you don’t feel “heard.”

March 26, 2025

Lenten check-in, week 4: We are half-way through Lent. Use this milestone as the opportunity to encourage your family to approach your Lenten resolutions with renewed vigor.

March 25, 2025

Today the Church celebrates the incarnation, remembering that Jesus is “God with us.” How is Christ present in your marriage today?

March 24, 2025

Look for ways to break down routine “ruts”. Ask your spouse how his or her day was, with different questions such as “What was the most interesting thing you did today? Who did you talk with?” etc.

March 23, 2025

“Therefore, whoever thinks he is standing secure should take care not to fall.” (1 Cor 10:12) We can find many sources of security in our lives: God, family, money, jobs, etc. What makes you feel most secure? Is it truly reliable? Talk with your spouse about it.

March 22, 2025

If something does not go well in a conversation, or a comment falls through the cracks, ask your spouse for clarification. Avoid assumptions that attribute negative motives to your spouse.

March 21, 2025

What was the last thing you discovered about your spouse? Let them know that he/she is a wonder to love.

March 20, 2025

What are some things that make you stressed? Are you prioritizing them too highly? Talk with your spouse about them and seek detachment.

March 19, 2025

St. Joseph was obedient to God, even when the future was uncertain. This total abandonment to the Father’s will is challenging. Talk about decisions you have made that required this obedience. Maybe you’re being asked to trust right now.

March 18, 2025

Lenten check-in, week 3: How are your Lenten resolutions deepening your relationship with God and family? Ask everyone to share the fruit of their Lenten journey so far.

March 17, 2025

There aren’t too many ways to say I love you! Leave a note for your spouse in his or her lunch box or briefcase/purse as a reminder of how much you love him or her.

March 16, 2025

“Abram put his faith in the LORD, who credited it to him as an act of righteousness.” (Gn 15:6). Placing our faith in God is not easy and requires us to relinquish our own wills to His. What is an example of how you trusted God? Talk with your spouse about the peace that accompanied that act of faith.

March 15, 2025

Tonight, gather your family to say a special prayer for your family’s continued growth, strengthening, and trust in God.

March 14, 2025

“I prefer a family with tired faces from generous giving, to a family with faces full of makeup that know nothing of tenderness and compassion.” – Pope Francis

March 13, 2025

Consider doing a closet clean-out: if you have clothes that you do not wear or wear often, donate them.

March 12, 2025

Make your spouse’s favorite dinner tonight – just to celebrate how much they mean to you.

March 11, 2025

Lenten check-in, week 2: How can your family incorporate a spirit of Lent into your home? Maybe an extra prayer at dinner or a service project together?

March 10, 2025

Sometimes we can become irritable over small things. Next time this happens with your spouse, try taking a deep breath and responding with a “gentle love.”

March 9, 2025

“I have now brought you the first fruits of the products of the soil which you, O LORD, have given me.” (Dt 26:10) There are many demands in life and we can only give so much effort. Do you give your best to God and your spouse or do they get the time that is leftover?

March 8, 2025

Add something to your morning routine that makes leaving for work a little extra special. Maybe a breakfast treat or extra prayers together.

March 7, 2025

On Fridays in Lent, we abstain from meat. Try abstaining from hurtful comments as well.

March 6, 2025

Love is humble, and humility acknowledges that we are not perfect. Take the time to ask for forgiveness from your spouse if you have hurt him or her.

March 5, 2025

Walking around with ashes on our heads reminds us of our mortality and our need for God’s forgiveness. Don’t lose an opportunity to strengthen your marriage or seek reconciliation with a loved one.

March 4, 2025

Add something to your morning routine that makes leaving for work a little extra special. Maybe a breakfast treat or extra prayers together.

March 3, 2025

Studies show that arguing/fighting is helpful for the growth of a couple when both persons feel understood. Keep a listening ear open when disagreements arise, and be gentle.

March 2, 2025

“Whatever villages…he entered, they laid the sick in the marketplaces and begged him that they might touch only the tassel on his cloak; and as many as touched it were healed.” (Mk 6:56) Are there areas in your heart or in your family that need healing and reconciliation? Bring them to Christ.

March 1, 2025

“Love is not easy, it is not easy, but the most beautiful thing is when a man and a woman can offer each other true love and offer it for life.” – Pope Francis