Daily Marriage Tips
Tips courtesy of Susan Vogt, MA, CFLE
June 1
Do you have a pet name for your spouse (baby, honey, a nickname that only you use)? It's not essential but often it can remind both of you of your special relationship. It's like calling God, "Abba."
June 2
When your hobbies differ and compete, does your spouse get stuck with the burden of extra chores, childcare, or unwanted loneliness as a result of your recreation time? Does your hobby take a lot more time than your spouse’s? If not, rejoice.
June 3
"Love is work. It's good work, if you can get it. But it's work, nevertheless.'' (Benjamin Cheever) What’s the first work project that you and your spouse took on together – painting a room, washing the car, repairing a window, learning better communication skills?
June 4
Society and churches run on both money and volunteers. Generosity is a virtue but it's possible to become a "good cause widow(er)." Are you spending enough or too much time volunteering? Your answer will come from the mouth of your spouse. Try joint volunteer projects.
June 5
“In sickness and in health…” How do you deal with illness? Do you like to be coddled or ignored? What does your spouse want from you when he or she is sick?
June 6
“They do not love who do not show their love.” (William Shakespeare) Respect life. Love your spouse. Extend your love to others today, even those with whom you disagree.
June 7
One of the sweetest phrases a husband can say to his wife is "What can I do to help?" Chocolate is nice but when overburdened, help is better.
June 8
"Do not abandon yourself to sorrow, do not torment yourself with brooding" (Ecclesiasticus 30:21) There's plenty cause for sorrow in our world today, but try playing a game with yourself and try to see a positive angle to a misfortune. For example: Now that I'm sick I can finally read that book; or since the plane is late I can use the extra time to pray. Try it. You might be a more pleasant person to be around today.
June 9
“Look, marriage is wonderful. Don't ruin it with unrealistic expectations. Learn what your marriage truly can and cannot be. Hint: Don't take your cues from Hollywood.” (Mark Gungor, Laugh Your Way America) So, from where do you take YOUR cues?
June 10
Natural or national disasters can bring out the best in humanity as we rally to help those in need. A marriage crisis can also prompt a couple to sacrifice for each other or honestly deal with a recurring problem. Don’t wait for a disaster, however, to test your love. Prevention is better.
- Select a Page -
| 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | Next 10 >>>
