Daily Marriage Tips
Tips courtesy of Susan Vogt, MA, CFLE
July 2
Most couples think that being involved sexually is the most intimate part of their marriage. Praying together may be an even deeper form of intimacy. Pray for each other even if not in one another's presence.
July 1
"Give great care to the preparation of engaged couples and be close to the young married couples, so that they will be...an eloquent testimony of God's love." (Pope John Paul II, 2001) Pray today for those who guide couples through marriage preparation.
June 30
Distance can put stress on a marriage. Having a spouse who travels a lot or is deployed to military service poses a challenge. Do you have any practices that help the two of you when you are apart for a while?
June 29
In a growing marriage the little things are the big things. It's not only marrying the right person. It's BEING the right partner. How are you doing in the little things of your marriage?
June 28
Don't argue with anyone today - even if you're right.
June 27
If you're too busy to have a weekly date with your spouse, you may be too busy. Set aside several hours next weekend that you can devote just to each other. This week the wife plans what to do, next week it's the husband's turn.
June 26
Self nurturing hobbies are healthy but can bleed into selfishness when MY needs become more important than my spouse's. Do I put any deeply held values like faith, fidelity, or family responsibilities at risk to pursue recreation?
June 25
Although travel can be an exciting adventure, extended close encounters can cause couples to get on each other's nerves. What do you like about traveling together? Dislike?
June 24
"A psychiatrist asks a lot of expensive questions your wife asks for nothing." (Joey Adams) As annoying as a challenging question from a spouse can be, it might point to a deeper truth or hurt.
June 23
How do you feel about growing old with your spouse? Talk about your concerns regarding aging - even if you're young. Knowing that your love is unconditional and does not depend on a perfect body is a part of "for better or for worse."
